Negligent Parents and the Sovereign God.
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Negligent Parents and the Sovereign God.
Isaac and Rebekah were a family chosen by God. Yet the division and bitterness that arose within their home were the result of the spiritual failures of the parents. Scripture clearly reveals this truth.
1️⃣ God’s Revelation – A Prior Declaration
While Rebekah was pregnant, God clearly declared:
“Two nations are in your womb… and the older shall serve the younger.”
(Genesis 25:23)
This shows that God’s choice was not according to human tradition or custom, but according to His grace (Romans 9:10–13).
2️⃣ Isaac’s Mistake – Acting by Emotion
Isaac acted based on personal preference and emotion.
“Isaac loved Esau because he ate of his game.”
(Genesis 25:28)
Esau despised his birthright:
“Look, I am about to die; so what is this birthright to me?”
(Genesis 25:32–34)
Hebrews 12:16 describes Esau as “godless” (or profane).
Even though Isaac knew God’s declaration (Genesis 25:23), he secretly attempted to bless Esau (Genesis 27:1–4). This was a serious mistake—he placed his personal desire above God’s revealed will.
3️⃣ Rebekah’s Mistake – Not Waiting on God
Rebekah also failed.
“Rebekah was listening…”
(Genesis 27:5)
She knew God’s decision (Genesis 25:23). Yet instead of trusting God to fulfill His word in His own time, she devised a plan of deception (Genesis 27:6–17).
As a result:
She taught Jacob to lie (Genesis 27:19, 24).
Esau developed a spirit of revenge (Genesis 27:41).
The family was divided.
Rebekah never saw Jacob again after he fled (Genesis 27:43–45).
4️⃣ Parental Favoritism – The Seed of Division
“Isaac loved Esau… but Rebekah loved Jacob.”
(Genesis 25:28)
Partiality is a dangerous seed that destroys families (James 2:1).
The parents did not walk in unity according to God’s will; instead, each acted according to personal preference.
5️⃣ Yet… God’s Sovereignty Remained Unshaken
Though humans failed, God’s purpose was not hindered.
“I know that You can do all things, and no purpose of Yours can be thwarted.”
(Job 42:2)
“My counsel shall stand, and I will accomplish all My purpose.”
(Isaiah 46:10)
Jacob was later broken and transformed by God (Genesis 32:28).
Esau eventually met Jacob with reconciliation and peace (Genesis 33:4).
Romans 9:11 clearly states that God’s choice is not based on human works, but on His calling.